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Tease and denial (also called “orgasm denial” or “T&D;”) is any technique that involves the sexual stimulation of a person to cause intense arousal without climax. It is usually practiced for the express purpose of creating powerful feelings of sexual frustration and pleasure in the person being stimulated by singly or repeatedly bringing the subject to the brink of orgasm without actually causing orgasm.
Bringing someone to the “edge” (or brink) of orgasm is called “edging”. Edging in addition to prolonged sexual excitement or stimulation will frequently produce pre-ejaculate or “precum”, which is often used as lube during the edging process. This can be seen as a sign that effective teasing of the male has been applied. Blue balls is another signal that teasing and effective denying has taken place.
A series of T&D; sessions can sometimes lead to a ruined orgasm. This can be extremely effective in causing sexual frustration in that the person is led to believe that they are about to…